Try something new in your relationship
HOPE KUMOR
Issue date: 11/17/09 Section: Op/Ed
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happy. It shouldn't matter their race, color
of their skin or the way they dress. The
no. 1 thing that counts is the way they
treat you. Do they make you feel special?
If the answer is yes, then you're okay.
One thing you should always make
sure of is to look your best. Why would
you want to be dressed in a ratty t-shirt
every time you see each other? I
mean, this happens after you guys
have been dating for a while and you
stopped caring because you learned
they will love you no matter what.
But still those couples should try to
wear a nice outfit. Have you ever noticed
the first time you hang out you
treat it extra special? You make sure
your hair looks good, clothes, makeup,
and your smell. But after the first few
times you stop. Are you telling me that
you feel better wearing the same clothes
when you hang out opposed to something
new you just bought? For me, I always try
to wear something new whenever my
boyfriend and I hang out. You see if it's
new, maybe your significant other will
notice it more.
I want you to think about this: How
many similarities and differences do you
guys have? People say opposites attract.
If you are complete opposites, it may not
work out too well, unless you've found a
way to get around it. I believe you should
have at least one thing in common with
your other. You have to outweigh one another.
Let's say one of you is a pessimist
and the other is an optimist, this is somehow
good because you're not the same.
My boyfriend and I are similar in these
ways, and then we're different in others.
Ev e r y o n e
knows
that
there's
a time to be
serious and a
time to have fun. But
how do you distinguish
the two? Well I believe you
will feel the vibe your other is
giving off to tell you whether or not
they are in a joking mood. There are
times when you guys will have those
'serious talks,' then there's the flirty, playful
moments. All in all a lot about a relationship
is having fun. Why would you
want to be solemn 24/7? That would be
boring. So try to be open to new experiences
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